This book and this book ruined me for blaming extraordinary performance on talent.
It’s true that if you’re 4′ 5″ you won’t beat Lebron James in one on one. Your physical DNA is a good starting place for certain career paths.
But it’s not everything.
Those who are extraordinary:
- work extremely hard
- show up when they don’t feel like it
- seek out mentors
- invest hours upon hours of time improving
- increase their knowledge
- practice well
- fail a lot
- refuse to give up
- invest financially in getting better
- contribute more than consume
- wake up early
- think differently about failure
- consume a lot
- manage their time well
- don’t watch much TV
- think differently about success
- see their work as more than work
- would do what they do for free
- admit when they’re wrong and where they’re weak
- learn things wherever they are and whomever they’re with
- have a driving passion
Don’t blame your inability to succeed on ‘not having enough talent’.
What do you think? Are people talented or do they just work hard and have unique experiences that make them better?
Lou Anschuetz says
Per Woody Allen: “80% of success is showing up.”
Woody Allen is a mess, but his statement is correct. I’ve seen lots of performers who were only moderately talented “wow” a crowd. Their presence and emotional connection overcame the other weaknesses in the act.
And, along the same lines: no performer comes out of “nowhere.” The successful ones have paid their dues over and over again.
Most millionaires have been bankrupt at least once. Working, studying, learning and failing are all part of doing it better.
David Santistevan says
Lou, brilliantly stated. Love this!
Don Simpson says
Did you ever here of Spud Webb? I disagree with your title, but I do agree with all of your followup points. Some people are just more talented, to me that has become obvious. But, music is a combination of different talents. Howard Roberts (famous jazz guitarist and great teacher) said “You’re not good if you’re not there”. It takes time to develop a good reputation. Talent does not always turn into success, but hard work usually does. Talent plus hard work is almost a guarantee.
Don
David Santistevan says
I have not heard of Spud Webb. Should I have?